I'm probably living my worst nightmare. Bill's going thru chemo for the 2nd time. Not sure how it will go but we sure didn't need a novel virus at the same time.
There have been multiple times where I packed up his "bag" with his id, his insurance cards, wipes, something to open doors with and I dropped him off and waited in the parking lot because I wasn't allowed to go into the hospital with him for his labs prior to chemo.
He did really good on his own. His texts were interesting and we finally decided on a check mark to say - "I'm finished - you can pull up to get me now."
I couldn't hover at the Oncologist's either. So I carried my bottle of Thieves, Household Cleaner - sprayed the door handles down and helped him get into the lobby. Then the waiting started. Waiting for the call of "I'm ready - last bag just got started - come get me in 30 mins, etc."
We've done well. He's held his own. I'm really proud of him!
I honestly can't imagine doing life without my Bill.
Thanks for visiting ! Reia